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Message N 1:
From: Axel Ling email@example.com To: XXXX Date: April XX, 2017 Subject: Hello It's Dr.Alex Ling from shtyle.fm
How are you doing, hope you are fine? I am currently in Hong Kong for seminal and Some Chinese colleagues told me about this site and helped me out with the registration too. I really want you to know much more about me, I am a very fun, Romantic, Kind, loyal, caring, affectionate and bright man. A man that doesn’t care about what you have, but who you are. I am easy going and get along very well with people. I am easy to get to know and enjoy people very much. I love the intimacy between two people who care about one another and sharing such things as the rain, walks at night under a full moon in the country, sunsets and sunrises, roaring fires in the winter, drives along the coast or just cooking a great meal together. Life’s simple pleasure. Unconditional Love and Respect – I am the type of person who gives my whole heart to my partner. I am Thoughtful , considerate and affectionate. I like to be free to show my love and not have that stifled (of course, I behave in public! lol). I like to show my affection – hugs, kisses, cuddling. My partner will have no doubt that I love her.
Loyalty – I am very loyal and trustworthy in my partnerships.
ABOUT MY SELF.
1. My country of origin?
My names are Alex Ling, I was born and raised here in United Kingdom and i have lived all my life here , My Dad is from Hong Kong , while my mum is British .I am a British, as i was born in United Kingdom,My dad is from Hong Kong but schooled in United Kingdom, where eventually he met my mum and they got married, they both built life together, after some years of marriage.
2. Have I ever been married?
No, I have never been married
3. Tell me about your family back ground
I am the only child who grew up in a respectable home. I was born in November 3rd 1967, my mum told me that I weight 10 pounds when she brought me into the world and I never gave her pains.I graduated from University of London and went to Glasgow University a veterinary school in Scotland, UK.
4. Telling you about my profession
I am a Vet Doctor by profession; I love animals and respect Human lives. Well, I am proud of my accomplishments and profession, taking care of animals is a pretty good experience that is subjected to understandings. For sometimes pets have been like families to my profession and I have always loved animals from the onset… And had few pets has a child. I am also an animal lover. We grew up with beautiful, big English Mastiffs! Some of the highlights of my life have been swimming with dolphins and manatees, meeting Jane Goodall, catching a surprise sighting of beautiful black seal just yards from the shore. I support several wildlife causes (such as the Gorilla Foundation). My dream is to one day see the animals in the wild, and to visit Jane Goodall’s Sweet water chimpanzee sanctuary.
5. What are my future Plans?
Well, I intend to have my own clinic and I also want to enjoy my life with a responsible woman.
6. What I like in a partner?
I would like someone who has loves and understanding. I so much love someone who is honest and truthful to herself and others. Someone who will not tell lies even if it will hurt . Someone as responsible and family oriented as me. I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am honest and sincere and I give all my heart and soul to whom ever I love.
7. How long have I been on dating site ?
Not quite long, I was lucky to have you on my interest list so I decided to communicate with you and see where it leads.
8. Well let me tell u every other thing you need know about me
When in a relationship, I am quite content to be at home working on a project or help with cooking dinner or relaxing. My lifestyle is usually relaxed and pretty quiet. I’m more of an introvert than an extrovert; however, I can hold my own at any social function. You should also know that sometimes I can be irreverent 🙂 I can be silly and pretty childlike, but could be very understanding with good sense of humor when it comes to sharing of thoughts and ideas…
I enjoy pampering/surprising my partner, and I also love to be nurtured in return. Sensuality is important to me?
Well, I hope I have been able to unveil my self to you so you should have an idea of the kind of man I am. lol. I also hope it was not so boring for you, reading all about me…
I want to know everything about you so please answer these questions as it will help me know you better.. I have attach some of my photos to this mail
- Where are you originally from?
- Have you ever been married?
- Do you have kids?
- Tell me about your family back ground
- Tell me about your profession
- What are your future plans?
- What would you like in a partner?
- How long have you been on dating site and what’s your experience?
- Feel free to tell me every other thing I forgot to mention
I hope things work out well between you and I and hope to chat with you soon. Have a nice day and talk to me soon.
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Message N 2:
From: Axel Ling email@example.com To: XXXX Date: XX May 2017 Subject: Good Morning
Good Morning,I live in Scotland and i want you to know more about me now that we are both interested in getting to know each other better.I know there is quite some distance between us but I also know that as long as we both have an interest, we can make things work… Also distance does have its own advantages, for one is the way it influences that level of communication between the people involved, with distance we tend to be more vocal about things than when we are together in Person.
I am close to my parents (I consider myself one of those lucky people who was born to loving parents), and family (yours and mine) is very important to me.
I love life and believe everything happens for a reason and how you handle challenges makes you a better person. One word to describe me is “passionate” about everything I do. I love to do things for others, working in the yard, a walk with my dog, having friends over, a soft kiss after not seeing my significant other all day, being appreciated, feeling safe in the arms of the one I love.
I am an individual that has a strong Personality and tends to be proactive than laid back, but is always developing a better balance. I always speaks my opinion but is conscious of other individual’s feelings. My family and friends look to me as the passionate, compassionate one as I am the one everyone looks to or goes to, to make everything all better. I have the biggest heart in the world and always will believe in forgiveness and generosity and the acceptance that others may not give back what I give but I will always maintain strength and conviction so I will never become cynical or negative.
However, coming to my family background I will like to start with the tales of my childhood. My father was a Business man while my mother was a college teacher. I have being a Veterinarian Doctor for morethan 20 years, and have lots to show for it.
What is critical for me in a significant other? Someone who truly believes in a partnership, being strong when I may be weak, not afraid to tell me I am full of it when I might be, being my anchor as I am when things are tough and challenging and when things are going smooth too. She’s willing to do things that she may not want to, if they are important to me and visa versa. Understanding is very important in a relationship. Someone that enjoys public displays of affection and the importance of intimacy and wants to work and play together understanding that you have to work at it to be successful and never being afraid to communicate and never going to bed angry.
I am still single all because I need an honest and caring woman, I will make her the happiest woman on earth, and also brilliant lady can help me achieve my dreams if she has the same dream. Do you have a yahoo so we can chat during your free time and it will really help us to know more about each other. And i will be happy if you can send me some of your photos
Hug & Kiss
Message N 3:
From: Axel Ling firstname.lastname@example.org To: XXXX Date: XX May 2017 Subject: Re: Good Morning
Here is my facebook link below and you can add me
Lives in London, United Kingdom
From Hong Kong
its nice meeting you and hope to know you more better
do you live alone
I have told you about my life in my letter to you …
don’t you remember?
and I have told you all of this ..
what is the time over there
and what city are you
Hm.. Have you read my letters to you?
Yes and i am asking as i want to know you more better
I have told you all of this …Why are you asking again?
i want you to know that asking each other questions will make us to know more about each other
It seems to me you talk to so many people that you can’t remember who is who and what is what …
What is the reason to ask me the same questions all over again if I have told you all of this in my letters to you?
there is nothing bad to ask questions as i want to know you more better and you are welcome to ask me any questions and i will be happy to tell you
I’m quite busy and have no time to parrot the same things all over again
I supposed you are serious, but I see you are not …
Yes i am serious in meeting you in person but we have to ask questions to each other so that we can get to know more about each other
can you tell me more about your job
What city are you in now?
I live in Edinburgh
and you are welcome to ask me any questions and i will be happy to tell you
my father is from hong kong while my mother is british
so you are in UK now..
BTW we can meet in UK
I will be there in a week
Yes we can but we have to chat and get to know more about each other
so can you tell me more about your last relationship
I have told you about my life quite detailed in my mail to you and you do not remember.. I have to ask you again: did you read my letters to you?
so tell me have you dated online before
Why do you ask? What does it matter for you?
you seems not serious
I want to know you more and that is why i am asking
If you are serious then you will answer my questions
I see just YOU are not serious if you do not remember me and my story and askining the same questions..
I see just YOU are not serious if you do not remember me and my story and askining the same questions.. READ MY LETTERS TO YOU and you will find the answers to all your questions
I see you even didn’t bother to read my letters to you…
Talking to you is a waste of time